It wont sit well with his morals. A promising sign that a Virgo man is in love with you is if he is not worried about being himself around you. Im not saying its impossible for him to forgive you, but it may take him significant time to get past it. After you text him that then just let it go. 9) He suddenly becomes distant and cold One of the most obvious signs that your Virgo is pulling away is when he stops texting back, calling, or wanting to meet up. Of course, hes not going to like that. Texts me things like he wants to see me, but never responds when I text him ok, Im free. The last time it happened, I know he got pretty angry. A Virgo man may act quite strangely when his feelings are hurt. So now its long distance he writes a lot but no call from him, he is not asking. He took you asking him about space as you telling him that you need space. If you reach out too much via text or social media, hell feel as though you are putting pressure on him to reply. Ask him something like Is everything alright my friend?. It was 3 days of spending time with him at his house. I honestly think I am overthinking this but I just need to know. Virgo guys are hyper-logical and serious with their relationship decisions. Hi, Im a Virgo girl, I cant believe Im doing this because Im usually very analytical, to the point of being stressed. I have to ask all the time. We wanted to eventually marry. Tell him that you care for him so much already that youre terrified that hell get tired of you. He'll want to see how empathic you are. He told me that he kept thinking one day he would wake up and meeting me would be a dream and I feel the same. What Can You Do When A Virgo Man Goes Distant? Continue reading if you would like to find out more information about why a Virgo man tends to go silent! Instead, send him a gentle message like: Hey, I havent seen you in a while, and I would love to catch up. For example, have a conversation about why he needs space. it's over when a virgo starts to ghost you right? They do this to protect themselves from getting hurt. If this is the case, then you might want to start worrying. Feeling pressured with his current relationships. I have determined there are common reasons why men may crawl into their dark, silent cave after one date. After 3 weeks I texted him and he just replied very normal and kind and said he got a meeting and will text me later definitely back and promises me. Sometimes this means that he comes across as aloof and cold. They arent nuts but they may drive themselves nuts thinking far too much about one thing. As far as I know, Mr Virgo and I are still connected on Whatsapp and by cell phone, but not by email or facebook,although I have been told that he still has our relationship status In a Relationship since 10th September 2019 still up on his page. Dont withdraw from him. I was told hes fine and I told him I tried to reach out to him twice and he said he didnt see anything. If its just you and a good-looking male friend laughing over an innocent lunch, your Virgo man is going to feel a twang of jealousy and will probably contact you very soon! It takes them awhile to think things over and figure out if its something they can get over or if they want to walk away to find another way forward for themselves. If you need more help though, you can check out my book Virgo Man Secrets. Do not overdo the indirect. Even if your comment wasnt something you meant, it planted a seed of doubt in his mind. weve still been seeing eachother and still talk to eachother so i dont know if he needs some space or. He seemed jealous when I mentioned traveling with another guy friend, he told me he wanted me to communicate with him when something was going on in my life. He said that he promised he isnt ghosting me or anything and he promised that he would talk to me about it when he got through his depression. He was very relaxed at dinner, his eyes and attention were always on me, and it went great. I hope the best for you though Ruth! It is going on 3 days now and I have not heard from him no text no call I am so scared to death and I have no idea what to do and I really want to fix this so much can you please help me Ive only sent him one or two messages trying to take other sites advice and give him a little space but Im afraid also that if I give him too much space who think I dont care Im so confused I cant stop crying and I will not live without him please help me what I could say what I can text him when should I text him thank you Christine a very heartbroken woman. If you keep texting a Virgo man about where he is and what he is up to he may start to feel the pressure, and this is no good. Scorpio (October 23 - November 21) A Scorpio is known for being distrustful and stubborn. You can always ask him if there is something you said or did to find out how you can fix things. However, you need to be ready to commit to this change, because once it has been made then there is no going back. If youd like to learn more about the Virgo man, please read Virgo Man Secrets. I told her that he was worried about the erectile Dysfunction (ED) that he had been diagnosed with several months before the Covid lockdowns & perhaps this was why he broke off our relationship the way he did. DONT lay it all out over text or give him the ominous we need to talk. This is one phrase that will make him run a million miles away FAST! You may try and communicate with her on all platforms but she would act cold and cut you off. And you deserve to know this information because it can be invaluable in the way you show up in your relationships. I dont think thats worth the risk. Virgo men are old fashioned and tend to not text very much. Virgo men are complicated and can come off sometimes as unreachable or untouchable. Virgo men have very high standards and tend to prefer women who do not dive into bed with them right away. A fear of the lose of freedom he might feel after it's said or from the actions he's doing to prove his love to you. Not only this, but he is constantly seeking the truth, about you and about the world around him. A Virgo man is a highly analytical being. The young lady asked what he did for a living. A Virgo woman wants to feel secure in her relationship. Things were going very good, he was calling, texting, checking up on me etc. This guy he doesnt seems to care much as I told him I want to see him again but he only wants sex from me which I am not interested in at all. I cant say hes done with you but maybe you need to give him more time to come back around. I think that he needs to deal with whatever it is he has going on. I wont contact him. If he says yes, go over there and settle down and relax. He may seem introverted and unapproachable, making him difficult to work with. Always be on time. That was a week ago and we havent talked since. I dont know if he will contact me but I miss him. I also cannot get my head around why he would be in a relationship with me for so long, then want us to live together and then suddenly without cause or reason cut me out of his life. Once relaxed, you can just mention to him that you have noticed that hes gone really quiet, and you would just like to know whats going on. See how you wont reach out to him? Another reason a Virgo man may go silent is that he's feeling overwhelmed. The date was really nice and we had really good conversation and I would never thought that it will be come like this .. Perhaps your Virgo man is ignoring you because you had a big fight and you went a bit over the top and said or did something particularly cruel and now your Virgo man is mad! He Does Not Open Up. Virgo man is already slow-moving because he wants to be totally sure before he commits himself to someone. Hi Cap55! I like this Virgo guy so much.Im a Sagittarius woman, and the problem is that Im married. You telling him what all his flaws have probably exacerbated the situation, Im sure. I try to make sure that I dont pressure him, give him his space, am affectionate, and very respectful as Virgos are very sensitive & very particular signs. There is no way to know if he will come back or not. Especially the courting phase. They're both earth signs who have a lot in common. I realize he spends time with his girlfriend on weekends. Two tips, though: dont overdo it by posting multiple times a day, and be careful when posting pictures of you with other guys (make sure the pictures dont look sexual in any way). Its just good to clear the energy and baggage before moving forward. In any case, my friend, why dont he put the things in my face? It took me a month to not be upset anymore, now Im at home been crying. (But I am aware that I am not saying things either, because I would already be saying: Why dont you answer my message? He has told me that hes busy a lot and rarely on his phone, we had an intimate moment, he invited me out on the next day for a date and I really enjoyed my weekend with him. Find out what it is that upset him and do your best to let him know you didnt mean to hurt him or make him angry. Now he hasnt said anything since the weekend we both said we had a good time, Ive reached out to him twice and got nothing. Virgo Men And Anger How Do They Deal With It? Only a few weeks later when I asked him what was wrong again he told me he was upset about me asking him that. I told him I was really sorry and we talked a little bit, but after that hes quit communicating. We met several years ago, it was too soon after my long time partner passed away and this brief relationship ended because I was not ready for the physical side of it. We are so very compatible. I never really said too much of anything to him because I thought I was g his type. There are definitely ways that you can turn all of this around and make your Virgo man putty in your hands. What should I do? On an emotional level, a Virgo can take a very long time to open up. If you find that your Virgo man is ignoring you, simply go out and get a life and show what you are doing the best way you know how through social media. And also asked him if we are not seeing each other anymore or not. Sometimes they come on hot and heavy at the beginning, once he finally agrees to date you. They can be worth it though if you stick it out with them. You have to learn how to talk to him without getting so emotional. When your Virgo man gives you the silent treatment, it doesn't necessarily mean he's trying to hurt you - but it does mean he's going to end the relationship. However, they also want a partner that can keep up with them. He might have a moon or rising sign that makes him a bit more reluctant to speak out or tell you what he thinks. Please check out my book Virgo Man Secrets. It sucks he doesnt want to text but you cant force him to either. What does it mean when a Virgo man gives you the silent treatment? He knows you, he knows your behavior, and he knows when youre being honest or if youre being a bit shady. There are times where the Virgo man is distant and seems as though he is being cold toward you. A Virgo woman will either tell you exactly what she think or she will stay silent The Virgo woman, ruled by Earth, is fundamentally rational and centres her thoughts on reality, not imagination. I texted him the next day but didnt hear from him until that night saying he slept all day because of being up all night with his kid.the following day i sent his a good morning text and realized he didnt responded at all. If you are unhappy in your marriage then you need to fix it or get out then perhaps your Virgo crush will come back around for you guilt free. I then had to explain who I was, as she knew nothing of me other than what Mr Virgo had told her several months before, that he was getting married after Covid to someone that sounded very strangely like a description of me including my career. Try talking to him and communicating in a proper way so that you two can get along and work through things. Aries are likely to run in the opposite direction if their crush makes a move on them. 1. Blessings! You want your other half to also share similar values, interests, and lifestyles. Ignoring him after a breakup. If hes making it clear that its only a physical thing between you then hes essentially letting you know he doesnt want an actual relationship with you. He's not going to move fast and he's not going to allow for pressure. Open up honey. You will have to work harder now to prove to him that it was a slip of tongue. They may just need a break from it all. After a serious breakup, he'll most likely be out and will drop contact and move on with his life. Thanks! I left that Thursday and communicated till Friday. Virgos are near impossible to manipulate and it catches Scorpios off guard. A Virgo man, when hurt, can certainly clam up and turn cold. They think too much and thus causes them to almost be somewhat nuts. 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